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Castle in the hedgehogs
one of
hedgehog get along with the distance between people, sometimes like a winter's two hedgehogs, too close to each other harm, far less than when taken warm.
This is the first got married my husband passed on some words may sound the there is something there, but no solution how to go deep. Today, while reading some mixed feelings.
said stabbed, it can be thinking about their characters, which can be differences in consumption habits,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even family background can also be dishonorable, or between the two families with different habit of doing things. Feel uncomfortable as long as the other side can not adapt to what we can call it \
first saw the woman in front of me D ripple drops look like tear drops, how many hearts have little shocked. Little time partner, happy days of good time was then to the middle so busy with a few years, and always maintain a distance to enjoy the happiness of the other side happy, but now close to the inner world into each other only when they know that Behind the cute happy faces, there are also some very sad that the psychological process of grievances. This is the third this year, friends in front of me completely bare their hearts, and this can be considered a step forward in their own right. Generally before each meet are not talking hi talk worries, never liked talking about himself in front of people's minds, even get along with very good partners or colleagues, and never like to ask about other people's family or the secret heart. This year, the same body in the Besieged City,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the accident listening to them chatted about the confusion and discontent within the Fortress, also began to study with them to try to solve the crux.
three families, two cases, the first case with too light, A woman and her husband appear contradictory, simply because the personality of the sub. Personality clashes, at some point always easy to arouse each other's sense of renewal, as long as love, mutual accommodation inclusive look at the hook. The fact is that, if we are all good to step back and accommodating each other, it would not create conflicts. The key is when the temperature is gradually cooling down of love, the other side some of the habits we naturally become a thorn in their eyes and sand. While I do not have too much in this view, may solve the crux of the ways to re-learn to appreciate each other, maintain a first love when the feelings.
The second case simply because the man's authoritarian and overbearing. Perhaps in the Chaoshan Plain this region, the number followed by a patriarchal ideology, many men of male chauvinism that women must marry her unconditionally to pay for their own families, forget the woman also has his own family and friends need to care. B F and C F, is a traditional good woman, dedicated to the family to pay, when her husband's relatives and their loved ones be treated equally, care for me. But when her family out of their own things, concerned about their family will be the beginning of conflict. Really can not understand these big ideas man, I can understand the thinking level, the two families should be careful to take care of their loved ones, without distinction, then what a woman married a man on the break and raise their emotional roots of their family members for many years.
I understand the side of them, while also began to be held firm with his principles. Friends said, this problem does not hear that when you can make do with before,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a wake of problems in this regard particular despondency, really want to forget so away from. And very worried that this will only suffer their children. I asked: \But when the noise is really difficult subject.
Why do quarrel? I now will not matter which of these unnecessary noise. I often quietly stick to my principles I thought, not accept in each other when the other party if they become angry enough to reason, then let him vent about it. Remember the good time off their ears, when in each other's ingenious escape into wild beasts. Woman, when you can not become a princess in a castle when the school was right to do a happy hedgehog. Gentle and calm, is to soften each other's magic, and strong and independent, were the women to protect their most powerful weapon. I do not know can go with the next long journey, but I hope that when I choose a person to go when I can not only take care of myself, but also to find ways to let his good time.
In fact, I feel my life so it was not bad now, I just started to learn the hedgehog and the other pulled a distance, for their own party to fight for a world of space, but without forgetting the other side to send timely Warm. This may be short-listed the city seven years before I sum up the experience of a small Bale.
2, the windows of the sun
me by the window and look, you have the same desire of the sun at this time as in June, light up my mind, but also warm my heart. However, you really can give I want happiness? I did not dare to think deeply indulged in your arms, in order to avoid the share of Zaore and anxiety, I crept into his air-conditioned rooms.
children for who the walls for light and warmth from the opposite sex, sometimes it is almost just like that in June the sun, full of temptations, but also no security for people Zaore. The psychological and emotional well-control capability, it is like a benevolent air-conditioning, constantly prostrated themselves restless and noisy.
B is friends were the only female friends to chat with people who touch the spark children. When the moment of meeting, Embracing her boyfriend could not resist when she felt a bit lost and intoxicated. But just then they broke free with just one owner, B female mind also that not very satisfactory Ji Guazhao their families. Her boyfriend is so obsessed by the dump and can be calm while she chose to stay. The other is a family man,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], be a very successful career. Wife went with him through thick and thin for so long, he is willing to cast aside, but it is considered what? Fanghua goes by, their youthful appearances, he is keeping his own love but also how long? Moreover, his beloved children how to dispose of, or a very nerve-racking problem.
Zhefan mind when talking about a woman B, I laugh, though sweet, it also seems to love sensible, and will not lead to any alarming consequences. Just the silly boyfriend would blow up her phone often sing to her, the old pondered the sake of seeing her face, whom she declined. Her fear of their own feelings on this, sooner or later will not hold, the more the utmost.
I gently closed my window and into my air-conditioned rooms. You still see me there, I felt your influence. The world at this time appeared to be so in harmony. Separated from the summer sun, searching for their own party to fall throughout the heart, although the fall of man-made environment sometimes revealed a dull and repressed silk promised, but I have learned something useful to replace it, I'm not really strong, can not transform the environment, I can only learn to adapt to it.
3, living flower
remember seeing in a newspaper, on the issue of children's education. \keep the ideas of nutrition.
accidentally at this time think of their marriage, if your wife has problems, whether they also deserve his (her) is a sick flower, more time to care and watering it? Then think of the wide, such as life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], where problems, we may all be sick if it is a flower, more time to care and watering it.
course, not all of the pay can be rewarded, but, more often then not pay nothing.
Original at :2007-06-11
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