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Ok here's the problem, life somehow seems to have conspired against you and the cash you had or were expecting to have is gone, maybe you've unexpectedly lost your job, found that your partners emptied the bank account and left. Perhaps you've just overspent and have high debts.
Now *bargaining*, this one is lovely (in hindsight). Having got past our anger we now want to shift the problem with very little real change or effort on our part because after all It wasn't our fault in the first place right? Maybe if we can just do something very kind and nice so that life will smile on us and shift the problem, send us some money. Under this attitude lurk feelings of guilt on our part were we do actually feel that maybe we had not done enough in terms of cash management etc. and other "should-haves" and that somehow we did bring this upon ourselves and that by a few simple acts of kindness we can now make amends and the problem will go away. It may take the form of thoughts along the lines of "Ok God just make this go away and I'll do anything you want". This is illusion, fear based, and leads to the next stage.
*Depression*. The problem still hasn't resolved itself and now we experience periods of hopelessness and withdrawal. We just feel like escaping, sleeping, being alone where no one can get us and hurt us anymore. We feel grief for the lost good times when we had money when life was good or better. We may feel that we are bad and undeserving in various ways. This is a tender time, allow yourself to process these feelings of sadness and withdrawal for they will lead you back out into the stages of recovery.
The *anger* part is pretty self explanatory. Having attempted to ignore and evade the problem we finally begin to admit its not just somehow going to go away and we feel angry, at our selves, at whoever or whatever we may feel is to blame and at life and God even. Why me? we say, look at those other lucky people how come they are having it so easy? However our being angry still won't solve the problem but at least some energy is moving now. If you you haven't felt angry yet, your still in denial and the situation is quite liable to get worse.
Life can be like that, stuff happens that to the best of your awareness you did not want to happen, thought and hoped wouldn't happen etc. None the less it did and the upshot is you now feel _anything_ but abundant.
This is a time of *renewal* when feelings of abundance can now start to be accessed in spite of our challenge of apparent lack. This is the stage when it does become possible to _Feel Abundant When You Are Broke_. Its time to allow alternative possibilities and solutions to present themselves and its a time to begin making changes, to look at what is really important to you and act on that. Who and what do you really love, who are you? Any crisis financial or otherwise is a time for a personal re-evaluation and a clarifying of what it is you do want and do deeply value. It s a time of growth and change like the seasons in nature [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you've been through the winter of your discontent and now it is spring, renewal.
So in this case of our finances, *denial* might represent where we are pretending there isn't really problem and is likely tied into the warning signs that we've skipped or ignored along the road of getting into this predicament _even_ if we felt powerless to do anything about it.
* Denial
* Anger
* Bargaining
* Depression
* Acceptance
* Renewal
* Creation
With *acceptance* we begin to take responsibility for finding a way to move on. We realise deeply that whatever the challenge we are experiencing that it simply *is*. Now we feel neither depressed nor angry the challenge is simply accepted and we can start to really look at and question what we can do positively to move forward.
By consciously recognising and observing the earlier
What is to be done? Well [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I suggest that all change, growth and challenge follows a similar path of broadly seven stages.
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