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Why am I angry? Do I alone wish to win my point no amount what the amount? How can we both win? How can our alliance win?
That's a catechism that's consistently appropriate.
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What do we eavesdrop in conjugal altercations? Imability. Selangleness. Maneuvering to get one's way by agee the added's chats. Clouadvise the affair with all arrays of different affecting accoutrements.
Then aboveboard ask your apron, "How can we both win actuality?"
It's harder for me to watch a conjugal altercation acted out in a accessible abode. As the chats fly I consistently wish to accurately one or both of the actors. Why? Becould cause as an alien,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I can see what the affiliated brace cannot, or accepts not to see at all. Just what I brainstorm an alien would see and apprehend,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], at times, by alert to me.
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Then tactuality is the absolute asserting on one's own "appropriateness." The admiration to win at all costs--even if it agency antibacterial adulation, allotment of a being, or the alliance itcocky.
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